Online Dating in the 21st Century
Tinder is the fastest growing dating app in the world and has made dating easier than ever, by revolutionizing the online dating industry. You can now interact, set up dates and attract women from the comfort of your own home with a simple swipe. Technology has made it a lot easier to secure dates– that’s if you know what you’re doing. There are various strategies involved in setting up your Tinder profile to optimize your results and attract women that you desire.
The big question: How do I attract women using Tinder? How can I set up my profile to maximize my results? Which pictures should I choose? What should I include in my bio description? How do I attract women that I have matched with? What are the best conversational starters? How do I progress the conversation over text? Once I have been able to attract women, how do I get their numbers? How do I go about setting up a date? Most men are ignorant when it comes to attracting women on Tinder – until now.
Even though you may have a lot of competition as a male, there is an abundance of opportunities for you to match with. Reports indicate that men swipe right and “like” a woman’s profile on average 46% of the time. Women swipe right and “like” a man’s profile on average only 14% of the time. This means that only 14% of men are able to attract women on Tinder! When analyzing such statistics, the importance of understanding the means in which we can optimize our success rate, becomes even more significant. What can we do to ensure that we feature within the 14% of men that attract women on the app?
Your aim should be to enhance your probability of receiving a match, decrease the drop out rate from this point onwards, all in an effort to attract women and set up dates with them.
6 Tips to Attract Women on Tinder:
1. CHOOSING THE PERFECT PICTURES
Think of your Tinder profile as a blank canvas. You need to turn this blank canvas into a masterpiece that will entice and attract women so that they will want to get to know you on a deeper level.
Since Tinder is essentially a photo-based app, your profile pictures have an extremely high impact on whether or not you will attract the correct women and receive matches. If your picture strategy is incorrect, women will be less inclined to swipe right and match with you.
You want to portray elements of your personality that women may be attracted to. A little effort can go a long way and any guy, regardless of looks, size, height and career, can attract any women.
Your photo’s should communicate your hobbies and interesting conversational pieces for the woman to draw on. Your pictures should also communicate the type of woman that you are looking to attract. For example, if you are looking to attract women that are sporty and fit, ensure that your pictures portray that you are sporty and fit. If you are looking to attract women that are adventurous, then ensure that your photo’s communicate adventurousness and spontaneity. If you are looking to attract women that are artistic, your pictures need to indicate a certain level of creativity.
2. CREATE A BRILLIANT BIO
This is basically a section about who you are. How can we use our bio to further attract women? This is the second thing women will notice when viewing your profile and if done correctly, will further entice them to match with you. Don’t leave your bio empty – this isn’t the time to be mysterious. The aim of the bio section is to attract women by providing enough information in order to create enough curiosity so that the they will be left feeling intrigued and wanting to find out more.
The main reasons why you should fill out your “bio” is to get more matches, more replies to your messages and more women messaging you first. Bio’s can be the difference between a right swipe and a left swipe. If the woman is on the fence after seeing your photo’s, a cleverly constructed bio may be the convincing factor, enabling you to attract women, pushing them over the edge to swipe right.
The fundamentals of a Tinder bio are to come across as entertaining, successful, interesting and funny. You want to provide a brief description and provide small insights into your life. Get your picture and bio combination right, and you will attract lots of women; get it wrong, and you may not see the success on Tinder than you desire. It’s that simple.
3. STAND OUT WITH YOUR CONVERSATION STARTERS
Most men make the mistake of trying to attract women by playing hard to get by waiting a couple of days before messaging her. Sending a message as soon as possible is the best way to attract women on the app. Women get tons of messages. If you don’t strike from the get-go, your message will be buried very low down on her long list of matches and she will most likely not respond to you; in fact she may even unmatch you.
One of the biggest errors that most men make is they sabotage their chances by sending a message soliciting sex or by using a generic opener that 95% of other men use. The usual “hi, how are you” or “hey, how you doing?” is boring and unoriginal. She probably gets hundreds of “hi’s” each day. Using conversational starters like this will not attract women unfortunately. Try being creative when coming up with your conversation starters. Your aim is to stand out from every other guy and attract the women that they are unable to.
4. MASTER THE ART OF TEXTING
When it comes to text game, most men fail to progress the conversation. As a general rule, you want the conversation to be aimed towards her – everyone’s favorite topic is themselves after all. This is the best way to keep the conversation moving via text.
Finding commonalities will also allow the conversation will flow. If you relate to what she is saying, she will feel like she knows you and that you understand her on a deeper level. Your rapport, comfort, connection and ability to attract women will all be fast-tracked.
5. GET HER NUMBER
The best way to escalte attraction more deeply is to get her number. Ideally you don’t want to spend days or weeks chatting over Tinder. Tinder is a fast-paced app and your aim is to get her number as soon as possible in order to move the conversation over to a new platform. This is the biggest secret to attracting women on Tinder.
Tinder messages can only be accessed when she is on the app, which she may only go on every few days, in which case she will be exposed to an abundance of messages from other men. Women are more likely to respond to your messages on another platform than on Tinder. This will make the whole experience of getting to know each other a lot more personal. Requesting her number displays confidence and will fast track your ability to attract the woman.
6. SECURE THE DATE
Always suggest dates in public venues, as opposed to inviting her directly to your place or offering to meet at her place. The reason for this is that she is more likely to accept going on a date with someone she has never met in an environment she feels safe in.
In conclusion, Tinder is a numbers game. Your job is to filter through the thousands of potential matches, attract the women you desire, secure dates and find a girlfiriend as quickly, efficiently and timeously as possible.